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Monday, March 09, 2009

Positive in crisis? Are you kidding?

half-full glassThis is supposed to be a part of my Reflective Sunday Series and originally entitled: “Thinking of Noble Things” based on the letter of Paul to the Philippians.

I went to church last Sunday. It's not that I am heralding my religiosity to the world, it's simply something that I seldom do in the last 5 years. I have nothing against the church or any Christian affiliation. Admittedly, I simply put-off attending to my spiritual needs. Of course, this can’t go on forever.

Anyway.

The preacher shared a very timely message based from Paul's letter to the Philippians. While the sermon centers on the theme of "Remembrance of the good things about the past, of the present, and the prospect of a better tomorrow," I cannot help myself but reread this short letter again in its entirety, while I was listening (think of multi-tasking even while in church ^^). These three phrases caught my attention:
...for I have learned to be content whatsoever the circumstances 4:11b (NIV)
...I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation 4:12b (NIV)
...if anything is excellent or praiseworthy -think about such things. 4:8c (NIV)
And to me, they echoed back two very important life’s lessons in a nutshell: contentment and positivity.

If you were familiar with the life of Paul as a Missionary, you would probably consider him as the real epitome of trial, hardships, and sufferings. Imprisoned unjustly, shipwrecked, beaten and stoned almost to death, and so on. Virtually all the negative karma in the world was dumped on this guy. In spite of that, he remained steadfast, resilient, and faithful to his calling. Then this letter. These words: I have learned to be content? Think of praiseworthy things? Ey! This guy might be out his mind! He had taken so much beating and probably something was loosened inside his already bald head. Oh boy, this guy must be kidding! How can you possibly put –on a positive instance in circumstances like those?

But Paul did! And he meant every word he said.

Do you know what his secret is?

Other than his faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, Paul learned how to be contented and positive in any and every situation. He always sees a glass that is half-full, a radiant sun behind the dark clouds, and a light at the end of long and narrow tunnel (although more often, in our lives this light could be that of an incoming train . ^^ ) Oh, fill-in your own metaphor please. His message is clear. Anyone can weather any crisis as long as you know how to adjust, and hope.

Positivity, not positive thinking, is anchored on an optimistic outlook. It is based on reality. That while things or circumstances may not seem favorable, an optimistic person sees something positive in any of these, and can even find something to be thankful for.

Three people were asked about the significance of a glass half filled with water:
The environmental activist opined: "It signifies one of the worst shortages in the world - the lack of clean, drinkable water."
The engineer replied: "You just made the glass too big."
The bar tender observed: "It means that even in a lesser or reduced amount, we must be grateful for what we have, and allows us to live in scarcity."
So, which typifies you?

10 comments:

  1. You're right, positivity is more realistic than just positive thinking. It's like putting our faith into action and not just in our minds..

    Just like Paul, am glad that I've learned this great secret of being happy at anytime, in everything that happens to me.. (the ups & down of my Christian life)

    What an inspiring post.. it will surely touch the lives of your readers..

    God bless!

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  2. Thank you Redge! ^^

    Actually, I am trying to get back to the real reason why I started this blog -to inspire.

    Again, thank you for throwing the first comment (and compliment too).

    Cheers!

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  3. there should be a balance between having what we want and wanting what we have. thanks for inspiring us. :)

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  4. At last.. this is actually what I've been waiting to hear from you ever since I've found your blog..

    You have a unique gift of sharing your true emotions which certainly enlighten one's mind..

    Just listen to your heart 'coz I know that there's a lot more inside..

    Be an instrument and use it for His glory..

    God bless!

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  5. @ Kikit

    That's very profound -'balancing between having what we want, and wanting what we have.'

    Did you mean also here that we overlook or neglect things that we already have and hence we crave more? Because, that's how many of us behave. We are never satisfied.

    Contentment (and gratefulness) begins when we really appreciate what we already have.

    To want more, to crave more, and to get more is okay as long as we have the noble of all intentions and act in clear conscience. After all, it is what we all wanted.

    @ Redge

    Thank you.

    Oh probably, I am just returning to my senses Redge because of what is happening, the crisis that is. Also, I must admit, I got sidetracked due to other priorities.

    Thank you, and I will. ^ ^

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  6. I have no idea what to be positive about when we're in the middle of the crisis. I just want it to go away, would that be considered being positive then? :D

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  7. Well, we all want it to go away ASAP.

    At least, for not whining about it, I'll give you credit for that.

    I must admit, trying to find reasons to be positive in ugly situations is very difficult sometimes. But if one tries a little harder, it can be done, and more importantly -it pays. ^^

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  8. I definitely agree with this post. Positivity is your outlook in life. It's a matter of how you see things. I mean, sure we each have our ups and downs but we can't always be stuck in the low point. I say, when we're at our lowest, we should smile because we have no where else to go but up. have a great weekend.

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  9. Yep. There's no way but up, if one has to simply look-up and hope.

    Thanks Chinky ^^

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  10. I'm not religious, but I do believe that is a huge key to happiness. People surround themselves with negativity, and the media pushes it on them as well.

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Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts ^_~